ATEEZ Yunho’s Alleged Ex-Girlfriend’s Viral Break-Up Post “Exposes” His Actions + Blames Fans

Recently, it was reported that ATEEZ’s Yunho had ended a year-long relationship.

In the time after, netizens began debating the newsworthiness of the official report, ultimately leading to a discussion that included details about the alleged ex-girlfriend’s posts about the relationship.

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Now, one of these posts has surfaced.

In a Naver Blog post, the alleged ex-girlfriend shared a photo of her arm, explaining that she had woken up in the hospital and had a bad reaction to it. She attempted to escape, it seems based on her writing, before beginning to reflect on her relationship.

A little while ago, I opened my eyes and found myself lying in the intensive care unit.

I was on a ventilator, so I couldn’t speak. There were IV lines and injections in both of my arms and the tops of my feet, and both of my wrists were restrained.

Do you know what I was thinking in that moment?

I twisted my wrist back and forth, prepared to break my arm if I had to, until I managed to free one hand. Then I pulled out the arterial line from my foot and tore out the ventilator tube from my nose and mouth myself.

The moment I did, every nurse in the ICU rushed over to me. They performed emergency treatment and restrained my hands again.

Like in the movies or TV dramas, I thought that if I escaped, I could run away. There was somewhere else I wanted to go.

I tried to remember the people who had cried while I was unconscious.

But in that memory… you weren’t there.

— Post

The post then shifts to talking about the relationship, and what she went though, accusing the person of lying.

I’ve hurt many of the people I love. For years, I’ve blamed myself, regretted it, and cried over it. But among those people… you’re not one of them. I still don’t know what I did wrong to you. You know… if I start blaming myself for this too, I’m afraid it’ll feel like I’m giving up on everything and accepting that it’s all my fault.

The person who actually caused the harm was someone else. So why do you think I was the one who hurt you? I spent years hiding myself for your sake… but who will ever acknowledge that?

Do you remember the last phone call you had with [name]? When my best friend begged you to help save me… I was actually right there beside them, listening to every word of that conversation. Every single thing you said shattered me.

You said you were sorry. You said you’d come back…

Why didn’t you keep your promise? So now, seeing everything you chose over me thriving and going so well… I guess you’re happy with the way things turned out, aren’t you? I had to give up my youth for your sake, living as though I didn’t exist. And honestly, that’s still how I live now.

I keep wondering… What if my existence ends up causing you trouble? What if you blame me again? What if the parents who were like a mother and father to me resent me once more? What if someone hurts the sweet dog we shared? What if your members, your relatives, and your family all continue pretending I don’t exist, avoiding me as though I was never there?

— Post

She then details the issues she has suffered, along with wishing that her partner would have taken action against those blaming her.

 But as if by some cruel twist of fate, all of my worries ended with me alone carrying the memories of our time together. I had to forget… and you chose to forget too. I want to smile in front of other people again, just like you do—just like before.

I don’t want to be afraid anymore whenever I have to say my own name. I want to stop needing to take nearly twenty pills every night just to fall asleep because of the guilt. I want to stop watching people search my name on Google. I don’t want to wonder how you’re doing whenever my mom mentions you. I don’t want to keep hurting every time YouTube recommends news about you. I don’t want to be afraid of people’s stares anymore. I want my old friends back. I want to stand proudly in front of people again as the confident, beautiful person I used to be. And I want to finally delete every photo of you from my albums.

So much time has passed, yet absurdly, I haven’t been able to do a single one of those things. No matter how my mom stays on the phone with me for three hours every night before I go to sleep, no matter how many times I’ve prepared myself to leave this world, every time I open my eyes, I’m back where I started. I can’t go back, and nothing ever goes the way I want it to.

Meanwhile, you’ve been achieving, one by one, all the dreams and promises we once talked about and looked forward to together. Was there ever a place for me in any of them? I’m no longer afraid of your fans insulting me or of the people around you pretending I don’t exist and slowly forgetting me.

I just… before I die, I always wanted to see you one last time. Not because I wanted to resent you or hate you. Do you remember the things you said through tears when you left me? The promises you made?

I wanted to forgive you. I wanted to tell you it was okay—that you didn’t have to keep your promises, that you should live your own life. I wanted to tell you that neither of us should blame ourselves, that I’d disappear if I had to so you could face the world with peace of mind and spread your wings freely.

You probably never asked for my forgiveness, or even wanted it. But at least you… of all people, you. When everyone was pointing fingers at me and condemning me, I wish you could have said just one thing:

‘It wasn’t her fault.’

— Post

The last portion of the post, seems to imply thoughts of ending her life, while blaming fans for their abusive actions.

By the time you read this, I don’t know whether I’ll still be alive or not. But through all of those countless moments when everyone was criticizing me, I wish that if you’ve ever loved someone—or if you have parents who love you—you would think before pointing your finger at me.

Think about my reality: my mother runs a small business, yet she still can’t even freely manage a single Instagram account because of all this. Even now, she continues to receive threatening Instagram DMs from your malicious fans.

All I ever did was love you, and write in my diary that I loved you and that I was loved in return. Was that really something that deserved to make everyone hate me?

Was attending your concert—after agonizing over whether I should go with my face covered—and personally handing you my very first bouquet to congratulate you really something that deserved to plunge my life into permanent darkness? Was that one bouquet meant to become a label I’d carry forever, leaving me to be abused by your fans?

Even now, whenever dating rumors involving male idols and their girlfriends surface, and I see fans attacking them, I want to ask those fans: Were you ever truly fans at all?

At the very least, I was just an ordinary person. I want to ask the people who hid behind the mask of anonymity and posted my name, my address, my phone number, and my dreams on Twitter—trampling all over them—why they did it.

More than anything, to you, to all of your fans who blamed me while praising you, and to your family, I wanted to leave behind one final message:

I am still unhappy because of all of you.

Now… I hope you’re the one who has to live with the guilt instead of me.

Take care.

— Post

Included in the post were images, including one allegedly showing Yunho’s side profile.

The post has since gone viral, earning over three million views.

맞는 문장이 하나도 없는데…
럽블로그하면서 일반인여친말투 유행시키고 활동중에도 티내면서 팬기만 존나하고 콘서트에 여친데려와서 그룹에 피해주고
헤어질때도 더럽게 헤어져서 ㅅㅈ시도글까지 올라오고 심지어 이글 아직도 안사라진거보면 아직도 해결못해놓고 기사는 왜 띄운건지 무서워죽겠다 pic.twitter.com/S7ddy5DFLh

— ㅗ (@244ani56823) July 8, 2026

Not a single thing she wrote is true.

While they were dating, he ran a lovestagram account, popularized the whole “civilian girlfriend” way of speaking, openly dropped hints about the relationship even while he was actively promoting, and completely betrayed the fans. He even brought his girlfriend to concerts, causing problems for the group.

Even the breakup was a complete mess—it got so bad that she ended up posting a message suggesting a suicide attempt. And the fact that the post is still up means they still haven’t resolved any of it.

So why are they releasing articles now? It’s honestly terrifying.

— OP

There has been no official response to the supposed claims made by his alleged ex-girlfriend.

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